pidgin: add HEAD build for gtk4

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Looking at adding HEAD build to prepare for rewrite needed when Pidgin 3 is available. Allows building development copy using gtk4 rather than EOL gtk+.

For now, skipping pidgin-otr (not sure if available for Pidgin 3) and inreplacing for plugin support